PERILS OF THE SHOP GIRL.
One of the many questions we hear
discussed at the present time, by
earnest men and women of every creed, is
how to assist young working girls
who earn their livelihood in the stores
of our large cities.
I have spent fifteen years in the
retail dry goods district, and my
position has afforded me an opportunity
of knowing many facts, and of
studying a few of the causes that
lead so many from the path of
virtue. My experience has taught me
that a number of them would have
been saved, had their parents or
guardians taken as much interest in
their business lives as they take in
the school lives of their children.
In shops and stores girls and boys
meet with many objectionable men
and women, who have little respect
for youth or virtue, and whose influence
has a degrading effect upon the
minds of the young. To a thoughtful
person it is certainly astonishing
to observe the indifference of parents
in regard to the acquaintances a girl
makes where she is employed; and
their blindness to the ruinous influence
some people exercise over the
youthful mind, by their manners and
conversation.
I know of many girls whose first
wrong step was in meeting these men
and women at their rooms and at
hotels, at street corners and at almost
any place except their father's house,
which is the only proper place for
them to receive their friends. It is
sometimes said that mothers have no
time to watch over their sons and
daughters, no time to follow them
when they go out at night to meet
doubtful acquaintances, no leisure,
in fact, to stand between their children
and spiritual death.
If parents had the faintest idea
that their children were contemplating
suicide I think they would manage
to spare time to follow and
watch them; yet they allow them
to go to meet grave danger to their
souls, and do not lift a hand to save
them.
There are a great many girls
whose lives have been ruined by the
men who employed them, or had
charge over them, and on inquiry
into several of the cases, I found
that these young girls received some
pretty present or gift of wearing
apparel, and the parents never showed
the least interest, or came to
inquire why a man should give their
daughters gifts, or what his motive
was in wanting a young girl to be
better dressed than her salary or
circumstances could possibly allow.
I find that all employers who have
a good moral character insist on
their employees dressing plainly and
neatly. Yet a mother will allow her
daughter to accept a ring or some
other expensive present, and will
take it as a matter of course, that
her daughter can receive what
pleases her, regardless of the risk
she runs.
In this progressive age of countless
daily papers, books, and all kinds of
publications, where parents can read
for themselves of the many dangers
that surround working girls, they
only seem to grow more indifferent,
and think their children are able to
take care of themselves, as long as
they are able to work. Young people
need much more sympathy after
they have entered upon a business
career than they did in childhood;
and so long as parents simply look
to the few dollars their children earn,
and never give a thought to the
many dangers they encounter while
working, our young people will
continue to be exposed to the loss of
what is dearer to them than life
itself.
If the parents would win the
confidence of their children with kindness
and sympathy, and use the
authority that a parent should exercise
over minors, firmly yet with
gentleness, we should soon see a change
for the better in many of our young
people. If children are denied kindness
at home, they soon find it
abroad, and they often accept the
imitation for the genuine article.
AN EYE WITNESS.
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