THE ART OF SMILING.
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the other day we believed, as we daresay most
of our readers believe still, that the power of smiling
was one of the exclusive attributes of the human race.
We were, of course, aware that some of the lower animals
were in the habit of laughing. We knew that Africa
possessed a "laughing hyena," and Australia a "laughing
jackass;" and one English expression, "a horse-laugh," had
led us to conjecture that at some remote period of our
history the British horse had been wont to express, by
means of laughter, that feeling of merriment of which, in
these whip-cord and bearing-rein days, he can so seldom be
conscious now. But laughing is not smiling, and our
notion was that, although certain other privileged animals
might be able to laugh when in the course of their
monotonous lives they could find anything to laugh at,
man alone smiled. It turns out, however, that in this
opinion we were mistaken; for, upon reference to Mr.
Darwin's book upon the expression of the emotions, we
find that in the faces of certain of the quadrumana
for example, the orang, the chimpanzee, and the Cebus
Azaræ, an expression is occasionally to be detected, which
(we suppose if you make believe very much) "may
be called a smile." There is also mention made of a
smiling monkey species unstated which belonged to Dr.
Duchenne, who, when at meal-times he gave it some choice
delicacy, "observed that the corners of its mouth were
slightly raised, and that thus an expression of satisfaction,
partaking of the nature of an incipient smile," was
manifested.
Thus it would clearly appear that man is not the only
Smiler. The discovery is undoubtedly humbling to human
pride; but we must bear it as best we can, consoling
ourselves with the reflection, that though the inferior animals
may possess the power of smiling, we have left them so
little to smile at, that very few of them can have occasion
to exercise this faculty, thinking it, as we conjecture, no joke
to be killed and eaten, or yoked and lashed, or trapped or
hunted, or vivisected, or in other ways made conducive to
man's use and benefit. It is, however, not so much with
the power of Smiling as with the art thereof, that we are
at present concerned. Any body can smile when he is
amused or pleased. The hard matter is to smile when one
is not pleased, or when one does not see the joke. Herein
consists the art an art assiduously cultivated by some
foreign nations, but shamefully neglected in this country.
The English Smile of Art, or Artificial Smile, is usually
a most inept and ghastly performance. In it the eyes take
no part, as they must in any smile which would pass for
genuine. It is a mere convulsion of the lower portion of the
face, a showing of the teeth, a snarl rather than a smile, for
which, indeed, no one mistakes it but the person that puts
it on.
Contrast this cold, unmeaning labial or dental smile
with the radiant smile of the obliged foreigner. You have
done him some trifling service shown him the way to
Leicester-square, say and straightway off flies his hat to
the extreme limit of his arm, where his hand retains it like
a captive balloon, and he bursts, not merely from his lips,
but from his eyes and from every pore of his face, and every
hair of his head, into a smile so beaming, so ecstatic, as to
make you feel for the moment that you have made a friend
for life. An Englishman under similar circumstances
would have merely grumbled out, "much obliged," at the
same time pulling his lip up over his eye-teeth in a sort of
sneer, which he would have intended you to take for an
expression of gratitude, but which you would have seen
clearly to amount to no more than this "If you had not
directed me I could have found out from the policeman at
the corner."
In the Art of Smiling it must be confessed our women
are greater proficients than our men, and some of the most
bewitching smiles we have ever seen have been, as we have
had reason to know, completely artificial. But even our
women are not by any means what they might, with a very
little trouble, make themselves in this particular; and
English mothers, if they were wise, would insist upon their
daughters, as well as their sons, spending half-an-hour every
morning in practising smiles before the glass for there is
nothing like a frank, ingenuous smile to get a man on in
life or a woman "comfortably established." The man
who has acquired the art of smiling pleasantly and
cheerfully whenever he wishes, can, other things being
equal, make a better bargain, or match, or bet, than the
non-smiler. In the getting up of a limited company, or in
an arrangement with creditors, a really good smile goes a
very long way. The Smiler, by aid of his smile, manages
his wife and his household with greater ease, and gets his
dinner better served at his club. Upon his boots the boy
at the corner of the street will rub a brighter polish. From
him the commissionaire and the cabman will be content
with half their customary overcharge. To the nephew who
can always smile in the right place rather than to his
brother or his cousin, will go the Consols of the maiden
aunt and the acres of the bachelor uncle; the smiling
lodger runs the longest "tick;" the lawyer who smiles
upon his clients keeps them and obtains more; the
physician who smiles over his fee is called in again and
gets another; the smiling pastor leads the largest flock,
and the smiling postman gets the best Christmas-box.
As for women, they usually desire but one thing in life.
a husband, which they regard, and rightly, as the
medium through which all other good things are to be
obtained. What says the Scotch girl in the song,
"I dinna care what I should want
So I could get a man."
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Now to "get," a "man," there is nothing so efficacious as a
beaming and becoming smile judiciously employed. Maidens,
therefore, as well as men, should furbish up their smiles,
and keep a supply of these weapons always on hand, if they
would acquire what they desire.
But though we have ventured to urge upon men and
women the importance of being able to smile naturally,
whenever they please and have occasion, there is no
greater mistake for man or woman than to be always
smiling. By this practice the value of the smile is
diminished, and besides, there is nothing which gives to the
countenance so fatuous or idiotic an expression as a
perpetual grin. Indeed, one of the best known characteristics
of idiots, is to be "persistently joyous and benign, and
constantly laughing or smiling;" and in one variety of mental
disease one of the signs that the last stage of complete
fatuity is reached is "a prevailing expression of feeble
benevolence." We should, therefore, be chary of our
smiles, and not impair their effect by a too prodigal and
constant use. But we should at the same time endeavour
to have always at our command a balance of smiles of
striking character to draw upon, so that we may never be
without this species of conventional currency so useful in
the hour of emergency.